Taste for Korean Food

by Michelle on September 22, 2011

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Kimchi jigae photo courtesy of Jetalone, Flickr

My mom had a full, traditional Korean dinner on the table every night for my dad when I was a kid.  My evening meals consisted of fluffy, sticky white rice paired with rich, spicy Korean jigae.  Noodles, tofu, and a variety of banchan rounded out the steady diet of strong flavors and spices.

As a second generation Korean-American, I longed to be like my friends.  I desired dinners of pizza, burgers, and French fries!  Embarrassed by the strange smells of Korean food, I attempted to hide my dinners as much as possible.  Going away to college was a welcome relief;  D-hall offered traditional American fare that allowed me to blend right in with fellow students.

Imagine my surprise when I would experience flares of homesickness that included missing my traditional Korean foods!  It took a few years, but I have since become comfortable in my Korean heritage and foods.  I most definitely favor the spicy, strong flavors of my youth and I love having a good Korean meal.  I look forward to times when my mom takes over my kitchen to cook up my favorite dishes.

I want to expose my own children to the foods I grew up with, which presents a challenge since I am clueless how to do so.  I never had to prepare my own Korean dishes!  I keep my kitchen stocked with some basics: soy sauce, sesame oil, sesame seeds, soybean paste (doenjang) and hot red pepper paste (gochujang).  Every few weeks, I prowl around the local Lotte to purchase ready-made banchan and other favorite foods such as dubu, mandu, kimchi, gim, and dduk.  I can even hold my own when it comes to a marinating and grilling the well-known Korean dish bulgogi for special occasions.  But it’s the every day main dishes I find myself helpless to prepare:  the spicy jigaes that I love.  I worry that my kids’ tastebuds won’t be awaked to the rich, fiery tastes of Korean foods.  It physically pains me to order and pay for a Korean dish at a restaurant.  Every now and then I call my mom in a frantic attempt to have her talk me through making something I am dying to taste.  It’s just never the same.

And so I hang on between visits from my mom, making do with what I can find at Lotte.  Sometimes I stare longingly at Korean ajummas, hoping they will take pity on a poor Korean-American gal who didn’t appreciate her Korean foods when she was a youngster.

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Michelle blogs at Wife and Mommy, writes online a few other places, and can be found on Twitter!

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Sabre September 22, 2011 at 10:20 am

Nobody does it quite like mom. One day your kids will feel the same way.

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Andrea Meyers September 27, 2011 at 2:21 pm

I know what you mean about all the variety of Korean flavors. One of my favorite things about going to Korean restaurants is all the small dishes that come out , the pickles, kimchi, all sorts of things. I’ve made kimchi and bulgogi and would love to try other Korean dishes.

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Jill September 28, 2011 at 12:49 pm

You need to camp yourself in the kitchen the next time your mom visits and learn how to make this stuff. You will regret it if you don’t.

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